As I've written many times over the past year, the decision to dedicate time to truly knowing myself better has been life changing.  Before that I would have, as most people do, just assumed certain things to be true without giving it much consideration. It's easy to be distracted by what I wish I were like or what I (or others) think I should be like.  And thus I just assumed that I must like music (I really don't), that pizza is delicious (I have always been underwhelmed), and that "everything in moderation" is a good thing (not for an abstainer like me).  And learning that, for me at least, balance is…